Sylvia "Sycamore" Toffel and I met when I joined the cast of a dance called "Math in Motion" in 2008. "Math in Motion" was a school-touring show produced by The Dance Foundation (then Children's Dance Foundation) in Homewood, Alabama. We performed dances about math for elementary school students across the state. I actually knew who Sycamore was from my youth. I had seen her perform at dance festivals when I was a teenager. Maybe it was in 1995, I saw her performing a duet with another dancer named Ann Law, dancing to The Blue Danube, a nonserious dance that was definitely improvised and broke with all the expectations I had for dance at that point in my life. I could be wrong. I seem to remember that they were both wearing shoes in this dance. Sycamore showed me a video of the blue danube duet, and they're not wearing shoes. I could be wrong about a lot of things. Sycamore's mother was a dancer too, Laura Knox. They moved to Alabama when Sycamore was a kid so Laura could direct a ballet company. Sycamore doesn't care for ballet, except for when she does. It's complicated because of her mom. In 2011, Sycamore and I performed a dance duet - a trio, actually, with music by Michael Glaser - at Railroad Park in Birmingham. We're friends, and Sycamore is always dancing, performing, being creative. She's always remaking herself, a habit or a commitment to the artistic process. Always asking questions about why things are the way they are and what might happen if we did this instead and what does it mean to be a human body in this world.